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On orgasms.
Mar. 30th, 2009 08:08 amSo far, there have only been two reasons I couldn't get off since I really understood my body and how it works. I cum very easily and very deeply 99% of the time (thank gods!). I love to get off, for me it's just the best high there is, period. I never fake it. I've never really had to, at least not since I was in my early twenties and didn't know any better.
The first reason is that I'm just overly stimulated. All it takes is a couple of minutes of backing off and soft touches, and the train can go full on once again.
The other is caffeine. I cannot get off after drinking a cup of coffee, again, I guess it's overstimulating to me. But I don't even drink coffee anymore (probably because of this, LOL.) just tea, which is no problem!
Also, I am a clitoral girl. I love penetration alongside it, but I don't yearn for deep vaginal orgasms. They don't seem to take me on the same shivering, violent ride.
I know that orgasms are not the end-all-be-all for all women. I can get that it isn't important to them to validate intimacy. But for me, the blazing hot orgasm is so fantastic that I refuse to give it up once the doors have been opened. I will pursue it at all costs!
The first reason is that I'm just overly stimulated. All it takes is a couple of minutes of backing off and soft touches, and the train can go full on once again.
The other is caffeine. I cannot get off after drinking a cup of coffee, again, I guess it's overstimulating to me. But I don't even drink coffee anymore (probably because of this, LOL.) just tea, which is no problem!
Also, I am a clitoral girl. I love penetration alongside it, but I don't yearn for deep vaginal orgasms. They don't seem to take me on the same shivering, violent ride.
I know that orgasms are not the end-all-be-all for all women. I can get that it isn't important to them to validate intimacy. But for me, the blazing hot orgasm is so fantastic that I refuse to give it up once the doors have been opened. I will pursue it at all costs!
